Collage Friday::Trials and Thanksgiving

I haven’t had the best week, so in an effort at being grateful, I am writing up this week’s wrap-up.  Mostly what’s been wrong this week is my bad attitude and my exhaustion, all caused by a lack of quiet and what is often referred to as “down time” in my life.  My constant busy-ness has resulted in stress and burn-out (again! why do I let this happen over and over?), and I’ve got to figure out a way to balance my responsibilities.  While I’m pretty sure I’m not going to find an extra ten or twelve hours to add to the twenty-four I already get, I don’t know.  Maybe I can figure out something to let go.  (The obvious response here is blogging, I guess, but I consider writing cathartic, so bear with me. . . )

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1. Monday was chilly but rain-free (which is unusual lately), so we took off mid-morning to our favorite nature trail.  Here the girls are resting and enjoying their first glimpse from the trail of the Tennessee River.  We had a good time, even if climbing the huge hill back to the parking lot reminded me of just how out of shape I am.  I really, really, really want to inject more physical activity into our days, but most days I’m at a loss how to fit it all in.  (Do you detect a theme here?)  I’m glad that on Monday I chose the better thing.

2.  One thing that often gets left off my weekly wrap-up posts is the girls’ music lessons, but their practice actually helps make up the backbone of our days.  Here Louise is working on adding chords to a song she wrote lyrics for.  The girls usually practice in the mornings right after breakfast and chores, and while I’d love to tweak our schedule to push the practice to later in the day, the reality is that too often when it doesn’t happen first thing, it doesn’t happen at all.  Lulu was tickled to have assigned to her this week a song about a woodpecker.  Her delight, of course, was because of our backyard friend.  This week I’ve enjoyed hearing the strains of “How Great Thou Art,” one of Lulu’s assigned (and favorite!) pieces.   I’m also thankful that Steady Eddie took Louise to music on Tuesday night, which freed me up for number 3.  :-)

3.  On Tuesday night Lulu and I went to a kids’ book club meeting at one of our libraries.  The book up for discussion wasThe Invention of Hugo Cabret, and while I think Lulu liked it, I think she honestly would’ve rather been at Nana’s, which is the usual Tuesday evening activity.  She did get to play on the Scholastic website in the library’s computer lab which is always a treat, but other than that, I don’t think she was too impressed.  This really isn’t so much a reflection of the program as it was Lulu’s age (I think) and her bent.  Oh, and her love for spending time at Nana’s. 

4. On Wednesday I was intent on getting our stuff done, oblivious to the weather or anything else outside my home.  Then I read this post of Alice’s and her reference to an “unusually warm January day,” and I immediately stuck my head outside and changed our lunch plans to include a picnic on our new picnic table (a Christmas gift from my sweet brother-in-law).  We ate our PB & Js and goldfish, and then I read a chapter of Adam of the Road before we went in for an abbrieviated rest time.  The weather was glorious!

5.  After the girls had about 30 minutes of quiet time, the three of us went back outside while the DLM napped.  The girls ran around, picked flowers, and made a willow twig broom (inspired by Laura and Mary, of course) out of wild onions and a tree limb.  I read my Bible (Philippians 1 has been my meditation this week) and a novel for the Armchair Cybils.  This was a bright spot–reading outside while the girls ran around and enjoyed the fresh air and sunshine.  Lovely.

6.  That very same afternoon, we loaded up and headed for Lulu’s piano lesson, stopping at Sonic for happy hour (half-price drinks and slushes, for the uninitiated) on the way.  The girls got lemon-berry fresh fruit slushes, while I enjoyed my Dr. Pepper with the good Sonic ice.  :-)   Instead of going inside at piano lessons, Louise, the DLM, and I sat outside on a quilt I had brought along for just that purpose.  Louise and I played a game of Tens Memory while the DLM worried the cat.  I usually count on time during piano to work on something with Louise–reading or math.  Most days it works out, too. 

7.  Lulu and I are still working on geometry in RS C, and we’ve also hit the concept of fractions pretty hard this week.  I really like the way RS slowly introduces a concept and ties concepts together.  We’ve also been working toward memorizing multiplication facts, though in a low-key way.  I did pull out our CD One Hundred Sheep that we’ve had since I saw it recommended at Supratentorial.  It is a wonderful resource to cement skip counting/multiplication facts in a fun, silly (but also Biblical!) way.  It’s my favorite resource this week.

8.  Monday morning was a big day in the world of children’s literature–the ALA Youth Media Awards (i.e. Newbery, Caldecott, and others) was announced.  You can read my thoughts about the winners here.  Mostly I just wanted to note that Louise and I enjoyed watching them together.  Lulu was too busy reading to notice.  :-)

9.  Our paperwhites have bloomed!  A funny story to go along with that is the fact that when I first noticed their fragrance, I thought it was really. . . bad.  ;-)   The scent has grown on me, but at first I couldn’t figure out what it was for the life of me, and I thought I had some major cleaning to do!

All in all, really not a bad week, right?  Right!  The usual was more or less done, too–lots of reading (Lulu’s required book was The Minstrel in the Tower), some writing, some history (Frederick Barbarrossa and St. Francis this week), and Steady Eddie is discussing energy with the girls for Saturday Science.  (Yes, I just coined that title!)  Another high point of the week was that Louise read several pages from A Grain of Rice by Demi of her own volition in the van on the way to church on Wednesday night.  Maybe that made up for our losing the Young Cam Jansen book she had been reading for practice earlier in the week, right?

You know, the blessings are there if we look for them.  The biggest blessing this week was something that doesn’t relate much to school at all.  I took the girls to have their hair cut at the salon inside Wal-Mart on Thursday afternoon, and I accidentally left my little point-n-shoot camera on the counter when I paid.  I called this morning, hoping against hope that someone hadn’t picked it up and not turned it in, and–praise God!–the nice ladies at Cost Cutters still had it!  My heart really did swell up with thanksgiving at that news.  My cameras are an extension of my arm on most days, and my little one would’ve really been missed (not to mention expensive to replace).

I’ve just about decided to put my angst over Louise’s math lessons to rest by putting off anything formal until after we take our next week-long break, which is in two weeks.  I plan to get things together that week.  Until then, we’ll squeeze in math games and books when we can.  The fact that she added two two-digit numbers this week in her head, completely out of the blue, helps me to realize that she’s doing okay and some of this stuff gets picked up atmospherically, somehow.  :-) 

How was your week?

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14 thoughts on “Collage Friday::Trials and Thanksgiving

  1. So sorry it’s rarely sunny where you are. :( I’d have a tough time with that!

    I totally get the need to blog. I have found that writing is a great outlet for me…and esp when things are low it is a good way for me to focus on the positive.

  2. Amy – here’s to a better week next week. Let’s make a pact, shall we?

    You know, my daughter’s piano is the first thing accomplished each day. I love doing that first because it sets a good tone (no pun intended) for the day. She has a competition in March and she is hitting the practice hard. My own students are, too.

    No worries over the math! :-0

    Rest this weekend!

  3. Annette, It actually is sunny here sometimes (it is the “Sunny South”!), but lately we’ve had lots and lots of rain. Thanks for the well-wishes!

    Mary, It’s a deal! :-)

  4. I know what you mean about never quite finding the time to get it all done, and getting stressed when you don’t have enough time to relax. I’ve been working really hard on trying to sort out these kinds of things at our house…mostly I’m trying to let go of some of my expectations and standards to enjoy life and learning with my kids more!

    Thanks for linking with Favorite Resources. That CD looks like a neat resource.

  5. Ahhhhh….100 sheep! It’s been awhile for us. I had to hide it because I thought if I heard #5 or #7 one more time I was going to pull my hair out. Maternal sanity ranks higher than math facts. Right? :) Even so, just the other day in the shower I realized I was singing the 9′s song…9,18, 27, 36, 45, 54, 63, 72, how about you?

    Hope your week is better. I always enjoy your weekly wrap-ups as I’m often struggling with the same issues.

  6. The stop to Sonic sounds lovely. I think I may have to stop in next week for a Dt. Strawberry Limade!

    You do such a great job of getting out. I really wish I was more motivated to get outdoors, but I like to be toast warm and don’t want to splurge on warm footwear, and then again it is raining more times than not and that definitely keeps me indoors!

  7. Oh, that Science Saturday idea just perked me up! We are bringing home the last of our cre next fall. My husband loves science and it is really my weak area. What a great way to involve him in their schooling! HE can teach them science on Saturday’s!!!!! I see either astronomy or weather studies in their little futures!!!

    To me, your week sounds like it was just perfect. Now have a nice weekend.

    Nicole

  8. The last comment was supposed to say “crew”. And, I will be looking for the 100 sheep to listen to in the car. Thanks!

  9. The Lewis class is definitely creating a bit of havoc around these parts and stress is beginning to rise again, trying to stay on top of it. Yes, the “obvious” thing might be to drop blogging but, as you say, writing is cathartic.

    Balance in life is elusive yet again (for me) but I’m hoping we can all just hang tight for a few more weeks.

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